{"id":604,"date":"2011-03-03T10:16:52","date_gmt":"2011-03-03T15:16:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/?p=604"},"modified":"2025-08-24T06:39:06","modified_gmt":"2025-08-24T10:39:06","slug":"your-choice-of-pain","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Choice of Pain"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A couple of weeks ago, one of my clients gave two NCAA basketball tickets to me and my son. \u00a0It was the first ime that I had been to a college game in well over a decade and it was the very first time for my son. \u00a0We were very thankful to the client who gave us the tickets and to the two clients that graciously rescheduled their appointments so that we could attend,<\/p>\n<p>While arranging to pick up the tickets, my client shared with me the speech that he had just attended the night before. \u00a0He indicated that it was one of the best speeches that he had ever heard. \u00a0It was given by a NCAA football coach and his message was simple &#8211; Your Choice of Pain &#8211; Discipline or Regret.<\/p>\n<p>Wow! \u00a0The title got me. \u00a0Just thinking of where we all have been and the choices we have had to make. \u00a0In many cases our choice of discipline has been difficult. \u00a0You and I both have had to endure hard things because we chose discipline. \u00a0Whatever it was in your life you were better because you chose the tough route.<\/p>\n<p>What about those, and it may have been you and I in other areas, that chose the lesser approach. \u00a0Choosing to skip the discipline they picked the easier road. \u00a0In many, many cases, that easier road became a period of regret. \u00a0Regret of what could have been if we would have just pushed a little harder.<\/p>\n<p>No, it is never easy, but in every area of life we have choices to make. \u00a0When confronted by those choices, what are you going to take &#8211; the one of discipline or the one that leads to regret? \u00a0In areas of career change, life decisions, and finances I meet many who say that they just can not do it &#8211; they can not take the discipline that will help them grow stronger, wiser, and better equipped for life.<\/p>\n<p>Its your choice of pain.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A couple of weeks ago, one of my clients gave two NCAA basketball tickets to me and my son. \u00a0It was the first ime that I had been to a college game in well over a decade and it was the very first time for my son. \u00a0We were very thankful to the client who [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,22,10,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-604","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coaching","category-encouragement","category-personal","category-productivity"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Your Choice of Pain - Financial Focus<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Your Choice of Pain - Financial Focus\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"A couple of weeks ago, one of my clients gave two NCAA basketball tickets to me and my son. \u00a0It was the first ime that I had been to a college game in well over a decade and it was the very first time for my son. \u00a0We were very thankful to the client who [&hellip;]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Financial Focus\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"http:\/\/financialfocus\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2011-03-03T15:16:52+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2025-08-24T10:39:06+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Parkey Thompson\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Parkey Thompson\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/index.php\\\/your-choice-of-pain\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/index.php\\\/your-choice-of-pain\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Parkey Thompson\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/5dc1a9b7d2ae31d9322fcfdace3c93e4\"},\"headline\":\"Your Choice of Pain\",\"datePublished\":\"2011-03-03T15:16:52+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2025-08-24T10:39:06+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/index.php\\\/your-choice-of-pain\\\/\"},\"wordCount\":337,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/#organization\"},\"articleSection\":[\"Coaching\",\"Encouragement\",\"Personal\",\"Productivity\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/index.php\\\/your-choice-of-pain\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/index.php\\\/your-choice-of-pain\\\/\",\"name\":\"Your Choice of Pain - Financial Focus\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2011-03-03T15:16:52+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2025-08-24T10:39:06+00:00\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/index.php\\\/your-choice-of-pain\\\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/\",\"name\":\"Financial Focus\",\"description\":\"Personal Financial Coaching\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Financial Focus\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2012\\\/10\\\/financial-focus-logo.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2012\\\/10\\\/financial-focus-logo.jpg\",\"width\":\"400\",\"height\":\"72\",\"caption\":\"Financial Focus\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\"},\"sameAs\":[\"http:\\\/\\\/financialfocus\",\"https:\\\/\\\/x.com\\\/financialfocus1\"]},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/5dc1a9b7d2ae31d9322fcfdace3c93e4\",\"name\":\"Parkey Thompson\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/07cc95deb83f1e12d0c9eaf6bbfea31df95bc8daaf889b877ffb444c3d9311bb?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/07cc95deb83f1e12d0c9eaf6bbfea31df95bc8daaf889b877ffb444c3d9311bb?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/07cc95deb83f1e12d0c9eaf6bbfea31df95bc8daaf889b877ffb444c3d9311bb?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Parkey Thompson\"},\"description\":\"After many years of coaching others in the workplace, Parkey Thompson decided to follow his passions and focus on providing personal financial coaching, strategic planning and direction setting to individuals, families, religious organizations and small businesses by starting Financial Focus. Throughout his personal and professional life, Parkey has experienced first-hand and overcome many of the challenges he now helps others navigate on a daily basis. For over twenty years, Parkey held various leadership positions across multiple companies, including companies such as General Electric and IBM. In 2005, he thoughtfully decided to use his leadership skills to help others significantly improve their own personal finance, career, life, and business financial situations. Parkey is a certified financial coach, compassionately helping his clients navigate through challenging financial and life decisions on a daily basis . He is a Sunday School teacher, volunteer and has served on several boards \\\/ committees. He enjoys passionately motivating and helping families, individuals, businesses, and churches envision and achieve their dreams. In addition to Financial Focus, Parkey is a contributing financial writer to local magazines and newsletters, a former frequent guest on \u201cMornings\u201d with Lorri Allen and Larry Estepa on the FamilyNet TV and radio network, and a radio contributor to Family Life Radio's Intentional Living program. More than anything, Parkey and his family live what he teaches others. Parkey and his family are debt free and live without credit cards and on a plan! Parkey and his wife, Lisa, live in Cumming, Georgia and are newly empty nesters. They three have three children \u2013 Kayla (and husband Micah), Morgan (and husband Ryan) and Micah.\",\"sameAs\":[\"http:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/\",\"https:\\\/\\\/x.com\\\/financialfocus1\"],\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\\\/mainsite\\\/index.php\\\/author\\\/parkey-thompson\\\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Your Choice of Pain - Financial Focus","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Your Choice of Pain - Financial Focus","og_description":"A couple of weeks ago, one of my clients gave two NCAA basketball tickets to me and my son. \u00a0It was the first ime that I had been to a college game in well over a decade and it was the very first time for my son. \u00a0We were very thankful to the client who [&hellip;]","og_url":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/","og_site_name":"Financial Focus","article_publisher":"http:\/\/financialfocus","article_published_time":"2011-03-03T15:16:52+00:00","article_modified_time":"2025-08-24T10:39:06+00:00","author":"Parkey Thompson","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Parkey Thompson","Est. reading time":"2 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/"},"author":{"name":"Parkey Thompson","@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/#\/schema\/person\/5dc1a9b7d2ae31d9322fcfdace3c93e4"},"headline":"Your Choice of Pain","datePublished":"2011-03-03T15:16:52+00:00","dateModified":"2025-08-24T10:39:06+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/"},"wordCount":337,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/#organization"},"articleSection":["Coaching","Encouragement","Personal","Productivity"],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/","url":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/","name":"Your Choice of Pain - Financial Focus","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/#website"},"datePublished":"2011-03-03T15:16:52+00:00","dateModified":"2025-08-24T10:39:06+00:00","inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/your-choice-of-pain\/"]}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/","name":"Financial Focus","description":"Personal Financial Coaching","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/#organization","name":"Financial Focus","url":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/financial-focus-logo.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/financial-focus-logo.jpg","width":"400","height":"72","caption":"Financial Focus"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"},"sameAs":["http:\/\/financialfocus","https:\/\/x.com\/financialfocus1"]},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/#\/schema\/person\/5dc1a9b7d2ae31d9322fcfdace3c93e4","name":"Parkey Thompson","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/07cc95deb83f1e12d0c9eaf6bbfea31df95bc8daaf889b877ffb444c3d9311bb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/07cc95deb83f1e12d0c9eaf6bbfea31df95bc8daaf889b877ffb444c3d9311bb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/07cc95deb83f1e12d0c9eaf6bbfea31df95bc8daaf889b877ffb444c3d9311bb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Parkey Thompson"},"description":"After many years of coaching others in the workplace, Parkey Thompson decided to follow his passions and focus on providing personal financial coaching, strategic planning and direction setting to individuals, families, religious organizations and small businesses by starting Financial Focus. Throughout his personal and professional life, Parkey has experienced first-hand and overcome many of the challenges he now helps others navigate on a daily basis. For over twenty years, Parkey held various leadership positions across multiple companies, including companies such as General Electric and IBM. In 2005, he thoughtfully decided to use his leadership skills to help others significantly improve their own personal finance, career, life, and business financial situations. Parkey is a certified financial coach, compassionately helping his clients navigate through challenging financial and life decisions on a daily basis . He is a Sunday School teacher, volunteer and has served on several boards \/ committees. He enjoys passionately motivating and helping families, individuals, businesses, and churches envision and achieve their dreams. In addition to Financial Focus, Parkey is a contributing financial writer to local magazines and newsletters, a former frequent guest on \u201cMornings\u201d with Lorri Allen and Larry Estepa on the FamilyNet TV and radio network, and a radio contributor to Family Life Radio's Intentional Living program. More than anything, Parkey and his family live what he teaches others. Parkey and his family are debt free and live without credit cards and on a plan! Parkey and his wife, Lisa, live in Cumming, Georgia and are newly empty nesters. They three have three children \u2013 Kayla (and husband Micah), Morgan (and husband Ryan) and Micah.","sameAs":["http:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/","https:\/\/x.com\/financialfocus1"],"url":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/author\/parkey-thompson\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/604","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=604"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/604\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":622,"href":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/604\/revisions\/622"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=604"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=604"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.myfinancialfocus.net\/mainsite\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=604"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}